Hindu Wedding Rituals - Part One
Hindu marriages signify customs, rituals and elaborate celebrations of Indian culture. There are some wedding rituals of Hindu religion in India of after and before wedding. Each customs has its own significance and meaning and has an importance. Hindu wedding ceremony is not only establishing the bond between two people, but also the bond between two families.
These are the main rituals of a Hindu marriage which are an important part of the wedding:
- Ring Ceremony (Misri)
- Mehndi (Henna painted on the hands and feet)
- Sangeet Party (Musical Party)
- Ghari Puja
- Swagatam (Welcome)
- Hathialo (Joining of the Hands)
In this ceremony, the corner of the bride's sari is tied to a scarf which is worn by the groom. The right hands of the couple are tied with a thread that has been blessed with religious incantations. The couple then prays to the Gods to give them strength and bless their union.
The families of both boy and girl agree to their marriage then this ritual is being by both families. The groom's family places a basket of fruit, clothes, cosmetics or ornaments on the girl's lap (in her jholi) to represent their acceptance into her family and bestowing her with happiness and prosperity. The groom makes the promise and feeds misri (crystalline sugar) to the girl to confirm the engagement. In the ring ceremony, the groom wears the ring on the fourth finger of his right hand and the bride wears hers on the fourth finger of her left hand in order to form a complete heart.
This ritual is performed before the wedding. The future bride has her hands and feet intricately patterned with a paste which is a recipe of henna, oil, lemon juice and some water tinted with tea. The future bride should not wash her hands until the paste has completely dried. Invitees at the party also design each others hands with mehndi.
An Indian wedding is not complete without sangeet (music). The families of the groom and bride enjoy the music and dance in their home at night before the wedding.
Ghari Puja is done at the respective homes of the couple. The priest performs the prayers with rice, coconut, wheat grains, oil, betel nuts, turmeric and a number of other spices. Married ladies grind wheat on a small old fashioned grinder symbolizing that the home will always be prosperous. The bride and groom wear old clothes that are torn off by their friends and family members amidst merriment, illustrating the end of their old life.
At the entrance of the bride's house, the groom places his right foot on the top of the brides foot, signifying that he should be the dominating strength in their life together. After the groom enters the house, the bride's parents rinse his feet with milk and water.
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